The Yuletide season is here again! Apart from the Christmas celebration it’s also a time to bid the year farewell. For some people December is that time of the year to get Detty. Especially for those who has worked all through the year. To have a Detty December simply means to have a fun-filled holidays regardless what you must have through over previous months.
Although the word “fun filled” is relative here, It’s okay for one to wonder about the real motive of “Detty” December. The cost implication to have a “Detty” December and if having a Detty December is really worth the hype. Some people tend to show off all that they have acquired over the months. For some their December is only meant to celebrate the birth of their savior with no form of “Detty” in it.
We are at the period of the month when we either consciously or unconsciously assess and analyze how well we performed during the year.. Losing hurts, and you might not be able to see past it in that time. Although it can be difficult to remain positive when we perceive that we have lost, we owe it to ourselves to hold on to the process and congratulate ourselves for perceiving, respecting, and having the strength to stay in it.
Therefore, even though you have a major victory,which you don’t just want to acknowledge, which is the gift of life. The fact that you are alive is worth grateful for. If you feel that your year wasn’t fantastic because you had more losses than wins, you might be right. You likely underwent experiences that made you proud of who you are and how far you’ve gone. Stop downplaying or undermining your success(es). It is important for you to learn along that your past losses belong to your past and you should not brood on them and try as much as you can to focus on your future wins.
It is important to accept one’s loss or losses, but recognizing our losses is important, but it shouldn't prevent us from appreciating the advancements we've made throughout this journey we call life and in the steps leading up to or including loss. There are efforts needed for every outcome, good or negative. There is no age or time limit for greatness, therefore I hope we can all have the will to overcome our setbacks, recover, and remind ourselves of this. No matter you intend to spend the festive season. Don’t be too hard on yourself, Go at your own pace. Even if you are not boxed up enough to have a “detty” December. Always remember that there is more to life than having a “Detty” December. Do have an fabulous Christmas celebration and a prosperous year 2023!. Happy Holidays..
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